How Vessa works
01 · Proactive nudges
Vessa comes to you, when there’s something worth doing.
You don’t have to remember to open it. A small thing to do for them today, date plans ready for the weekend, a question to think over about how things are going.
02 · Focused action
Start each day with the three things worth your time.
From everything Vessa knows about the two of you, three things you could do for your relationship today, the most useful first.
03 · Thoughtful details
Keep the little things that matter to them, and act on them when you’re ready.
Note what you notice, in a line. Act on one, or pick a few and act on them together. Vessa also draws on them to suggest what you could do next.
04 · Real accountability
Give your rituals a plan, not just a reminder.
A birthday, an anniversary, something new every few weeks. Say when it should come round and what Vessa should do first. When it arrives, what you noted is back, the looking-up is done and the next step is clear, so it fits into a busy week.
05 · Constant clarity
See where you stand, and what your relationship could give you.
Ten things a relationship can give you, from feeling safe to building something that means something, and where you stand on each. Read from your own words, so you can see clearly what to do next.
06 · A shared life
One shared space to plan what comes next.
Dreams you want to get to and dates planned around you both, with three new plans every Sunday, in one place you share. Your private side stays yours. Only what you put here is shared.
07 · Tailored support
Talk it through with something that knows your story, then let it help.
Ask anything, any time: how to bring up something hard, what they might have meant, what to do for them this week. Vessa answers from what it knows about the two of you, privately, and can look things up, plan it out and set it up while you talk.
08 · Built-in privacy
Your side is yours. Theirs is theirs. The shared space is for both.
Your conversations, your portrait, your needs, the little things you notice and the reminders you set are private to you. Your plans and your list of things to do together are shared. Nothing moves to the shared space unless you put it there.